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The Trauma of Not Being Acknowledged; Emotional Neglect: Healing Through Therapy
The trauma of emotional neglect is a profound and often overlooked source of emotional pain. Whether it's feeling unseen by family,...
stevengestetner
Dec 24, 20253 min read


Family Alienation Through an Internal Family Systems (IFS) Perspective
Family alienation can leave lasting emotional wounds, but it doesn't have to be permanent. Using Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy, we explore how Parts and Self interact to create—or heal—estrangement. This article offers practical tools for reconnecting with loved ones, understanding trauma-driven conflict, and rebuilding trust. Learn how Self-led communication can transform family dynamics and restore authentic relationships.
stevengestetner
Mar 12, 20252 min read


Compassion for the Offending Partner: Breaking the Cycle of Blame and Shame in Relationships
Understanding the Cycle of Blame in Relationships In relationships, conflicts often spiral into a war of blame—who is guilty and who is...
stevengestetner
Feb 17, 20253 min read


Why Does My Partner Respond So Hurtfully? Understanding and Overcoming Hurtful Communication in Marriage Through an IFS Therapy lense
John Gottman’s research has profoundly shaped our understanding of what makes marriages succeed or fail. Among his key findings are the...
stevengestetner
Jan 7, 20254 min read


Supporting those with ADHD Through the Lens of Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy
Living with Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) can often be frustrating. Racing thoughts, constant movement, and difficulty...
stevengestetner
Dec 17, 20243 min read


Understanding Our Inner Protectors: How Internal Family Systems (IFS) Helps Heal Insecurities
feeling out of place can trigger them to take action. These parts act out of love and a strong drive to protect us; however, the...
stevengestetner
Nov 4, 20244 min read
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